Shehnaaz Gill admits to betraying her ex-boyfriend and shares why she did it: 'I have expectations'

Actor and singer Shehnaaz Gill, who was recently seen in the Punjabi film Ikk Kudi, has opened up about her past relationships and the lessons they taught her. In a candid conversation with a media portal, the Bigg Boss 13 star spoke about her experiences with love, heartbreak, and why she once betrayed her partner, a revelation that has caught the attention of her fans.

Shehnaaz Gill confesses to ex-boyfriend

When asked if she had ever betrayed anyone, Shehnaaz admitted that she had, but only in love. She explained that she made that decision because her emotional needs weren’t being met. “Sometimes the vibe just doesn’t match,” she said, adding that relationships can’t survive when one person keeps giving without receiving the same energy in return. The actor shared that she values balance in relationships and believes that love should always be mutual.


Shehnaaz said that for her, love isn’t just about being together but about equal effort and understanding. She believes that a woman deserves the same amount of love she gives. “You can’t keep investing in someone who doesn’t value you,” she said, emphasizing that she prefers to end things rather than waste time in a one-sided relationship.

During the chat, Shehnaaz also opened up about what she looks for in a partner. She listed six key qualities she values - understanding, open-mindedness, independence, space, appreciation for each other’s work, and the ability to spend quality time together without distractions like phones. For her, emotional connection and respect are as important as attraction.

The actor also spoke about the importance of financial equality in relationships. Shehnaaz shared that she believes in splitting expenses fairly, even during vacations. “In all my relationships, I’ve always insisted on sharing costs. Some men get offended by it, but I don’t understand why,” she said, explaining that many men feel their ego is hurt when a woman offers to pay her share. She added that she finds such reactions unnecessary and believes financial independence is healthy for both partners.


Shehnaaz further said that money plays a big role in her life, not out of greed but for security. She explained that she doesn’t have anyone to depend on financially, which is why she prefers to save and plan for her future. The actor also revealed that she’s unsure about marriage, saying she wants to stay focused on her career and responsibilities.

“I want to be able to take care of myself, my health, and my family. That’s my priority right now,” she said, stressing the importance of self-reliance.

With her honesty and straightforwardness, Shehnaaz Gill once again proved why she remains one of the most relatable stars in the industry. Her openness about love, money, and independence resonated with fans, who praised her for speaking her truth without hesitation.